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As we enter our last two weeks in Florida, we wanted to show you some of the beautiful birds, animals and fish we have seen here. The birds in particular are very numerous and active. It’s fun to sit and watch them as they go about their daily routine of feeding and calling. All the different species get along with each other so nicely. There are so many other birds (e.g., hawks, green heron) that I just could not get a photo of in time. Here is a sample of what we see down here everyday.
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Muscovy duck
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Osprey
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Easter Bunny
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Cormorant
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Tern
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Gopher tortoise
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Monk parrot
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Yellow bellied slider turtle
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Brown pelican
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Great Blue Heron
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Snowy egret
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Bottlenose dolphin
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Night Heron
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Flying stingray (he had it on his fishing rod)
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Pileated woodpecker
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Great white egrets nesting
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Tri-colored heron
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Blessed is the man whose strength is in You, whose heart is set on pilgrimage.
Psalm 84:5

In medieval times many millions of people were ordered by their Bishop or Abbot to go on pilgrimage to the Holy Land, Santiago de Compostela or other sacred place as a penance for sin. Since they had to walk there, this disrupted their life and many died along the way. Pilgrimage was a punishment back then. Today pilgrimage is more of a means to deepen ones faith by journeying to a holy site or shrine to increase consciousness of God. As they say on the Camino of Santiago, it is about the journey, not the destination. Hence we see pilgrimage as a gift.
While living in the U.S . with all its consumer choices and temptations, we remain conscious of being pilgrims, particularly during the Lenten season.
We feel blessed to be full-fledged pilgrims, especially since retirement. It has been almost 10 years and many of our travels have been to sacred sites that have enhanced our prayer life and relationship with God. This is our 4th year traveling to Fort Myers and every year we know that God wants us to be here. Despite the consumerism, shopping, food, traffic and aggressive people – especially the drivers – we still connect and glorify in the beautiful graces we receive from the Almighty while we are living here.
We seek to live within our means in a simple and safe condo environment without having all our worldly possessions with us. Some stay in gated communities or highrises on the beach for shorter vacation periods – this makes perfect sense. As pilgrims, we seek to stay longer down here in a way we can afford and still really enjoy.
Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” John 14:6
We are surrounded here by beautiful nature that we love and revel in. For example, the spring fed lake with the palm trees, birds and fountains right out our back door. Plus all the beautiful sunrises and sunsets on Sanibel Island, Fort Myers Beach and the Cape Coral Yacht Club beach. We thoroughly enjoy the quietness and serenity of our winter environment. We are able to pray each morning, meditate and go on fabulous walks through the villas and poolsides of our neighbours.

The lake out back

Our nearest neigbours
There is one little special place we have found with a bench to pray the rosary on most days. The Lord has given us the gift of beautiful sunshine, lots of vitamin D, healthy bodies and plenty of exercise that we enjoy outside away from the cold elements of the north. We truly love the proximity to the Catholic churches, especially the Church of the Resurrection and the beautiful outdoor farmers markets, especially Lakes Park where we buy delicious organic produce every week.

Our Rosary bench

View while praying the Rosary

Church of the Resurrection of the Lord
Another fabulous gift we receive in Florida is more frequent contact with family and friends who we do not see as often back home. We also have met a beautiful community of friendly snow birds who are hospitable and like to socialize at the pool. Are we coming back next year? We can emphatically say yes, the Lord willing. Are we also being called to do a sacred pilgrimage on the 100th anniversary of the Marian apparitions at Fatima? Yes. We are contemplating going to France, Spain and Portugal with the Divine Mercy group in October. Please pray for us as we discern if God is really calling us to go on this pilgrimage.

Divine Mercy group in Poland

Lucia, Jacinta and Francisco at Fatima, Portugal in 1917
We give thanks and praise to the Lord for all we have, especially the gift of pilgrimage.

Love and Blessings,
Marie and Dave
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Getting ready for Lent has been a great experience down here. There are many Catholics at the pool, on the golf course and of course the Catholic churches are packed.
The other day I played golf with a couple of Irish Catholics from Boston. We had a great time and I learned more about Boston and golf. One of them shot a 76 (that’s good!) I shot 93.

Getting ready to tee off with the Boston group
Then there was the fat Tuesday party at the pool. A Catholic couple from Cleveland organized it. Chuck plays the keyboard and sings. John from Kanata accompanied him on the concertina (tiny squeeze box) and ukulele. They played and sang from a songbook the types of songs everyone knows e.g., O Sola Mio.

Left to right Jack, Chuck and John
Everyone brought some food and drinks. There was pizza, egg rolls, spinach pie, spare ribs, chicken wings, salsa and lots of sangria. Yum! People gathered round or stayed in the pool. We had so much food and drink, no dinner was needed. Americans are very sociable, hospitable and loud! We had a great evening and the temp was 32 celsius.
Ash Wednesday we went to the 9 AM service at the Church of the Resurrection of our Lord. It was a wonderful solemn mass with Msgr. McNamara celebrating. We lingered to take a few pics.

Then it was off to Lakes Park for the Wednesday morning green market stroll. We felt blessed with the abundance that God has provided us with as we embark on our Lenten journey back to Him.



Our Lenten journey begins
May you have a productive and deeply spiritual Lenten journey too.
Here is a poem I loved reading this morning by Rita A. Simmonds entitiled Almsgiving.
An unseasonably warm March morning has brought of assortment of souls to the boardwalk:
Young women pushing strollers, talking on cell phones, the local crowd conversing loudly, swilling beer before lunch, old men sunning themselves on benches reading Russian news, a pack of boys on big-tired bikes riding, skipping school –
All seeking sun and warmth leaving behind the longest shortest month.
Me too or so I thought, but why this cry I can’t suppress, “A perfect day is not enough!”?
A thin dark man with missing teeth somehow must have heard.
He came to me with cup in hand, but it wasn’t the giving that made me glad.
It was the coming of the man.
(The Magnificat Lenten Companion, c. 2017)
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Marion Myers nee Twiggs
Fort Myers is a gateway to the Southwest Florida region and a major tourist destination within Florida. The winter homes of Thomas Edison (“Seminole Lodge”) and Henry Ford (“The Mangoes”) are a primary tourist attraction in the region. The city is named after Colonel Abraham Myers.
It was the love of a woman that got Fort Myers its name, but that same woman’s tart tongue effectively ended its namesake’s career.
The name originated as sort of an engagement gift from General David. E. Twiggs, the commander of Fort Brooke in Tampa, who in 1850, was in charge of a fort on the Caloosahatchee, yet the Jewish Confederate who received it, never actually visited the place.

Brig. Gen. David E. Twiggs
Twiggs was not the kind of man you would like to invite home for dinner, yet he commanded the respect of his men. Staff officer, Abraham C. Myers born 1811 in Georgetown, S.C. (he did however like) an 1833 graduate of West Point and the scion of a prominent Southern Jewish family, Myers was the son of an attorney, and a descendant of Moses Cohen, the first rabbi in Charleston, S.C.. He’d fought with distinction in the Seminole and Mexican Wars before becoming the Chief Quartermaster of the Department of Florida. Twiggs’ daughter Marion fell in love with Myers, after meeting him in Texas. In honor of his future son-in-law and to make his daughter happy, he named the fort for Myers. The couple married in 1853 when she was 15 and he was 42.

Col. Abraham C. Myers
Confederate President Jefferson Davis also liked Myers who had joined the Confederate Army in 1861. He appointed him the first quartermaster general and Myers remained in that post until 1863 when Myers had some “problems.”
Marion caused the problems, as she was “quite the gossip.” Beautiful with “a wicked tongue” and her father’s temperament.
The final blow to Myers’ career came when Marion publicly described the olive-skinned Varina Howell Davis, the president’s wife, as a ‘squaw’.
Historians are unsure whether the colonel apologized to Mrs. Davis, yet Davis replaced Col Myers in 1863. In 1865, the Myers family left for Germany and returned in 1876.
Florida became a US Territory in 1821, the ensuing wave of settlers asked for protection from the native Seminoles. Fort Myers was built along the Caloosahatchee River, one of the first bases of operations during the Seminole Indian Wars. Fort Myers was named in honor of Colonel Abraham C. Myers, the son-in-law of the commander of Fort Brooke in Tampa.
The fort was abandoned in 1858 and reoccupied by Federal troops from 1863-1865.
The Southernmost battle of the Civil War, a skirmish between Northern and Southern troops occurred across the river in 1865 and is reenacted annually at the North Fort Myers Cracker Festival.
The fort itself was disassembled, and some of the wood used in construction of some of the first buildings in what would become downtown Fort Myers. No more than ten families lived in the original town when it was platted in 1876.
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Our daughter, son-in-law and 2 grandsons came for a visit over the weekend. Tim has a conference in Orlando and brought Michelle, Wyatt and Jackson here for 3 days. What a great time we had!

On Sanibel Island
They arrived from Ottawa at the spiffy new SW Florida International Airport. After hugs all round they picked up a rental car, installed booster seats for the boys and we were off. After checking into our condo we headed for Bowditch Park on Fort Myers Beach. It was a cool evening and we did not last until sunset. Boys loved the beach.

Cool Sunset at Bowditch Park
We headed for Salty Papa’s Shrimp House for dinner. There was a lineup and we waited 30 min+ for a table. Settling in we ordered from the extensive menu. The boys were hungry so we asked that they bring all the food right away. There was a bit of a wait. The waitress was very gracious, apologizing for the delay as they were extremely busy. She gave us 2 giant pieces of key lime pie on the house.
The next day was devoted to shopping at the Sanibel Outlets , the dollar store and a few other places. The boys got a free haircut at the new Twincutz barber shop next door. In the PM we went to Bunche Beach. Next Tim and I played a great round of golf at the beautiful Whisky Creek course nearby. That evening we picked up some great pizza and wings from our local go-to bar Buckett’s.

Chillin at Bunche Beach

The bird Wyatt asked me to take a picture of
We were exhausted and all slept 9 hours. The third day we headed for Lakes Park. The family went on the miniature train ride. Then Jackson and Wyatt went jumping on the big blow up slide. This was the highlight of the visit for them. With much shrieking and laughing they worked up a sweat climbing and sliding down the 35 foot high structure. No damage was done and we all had a great time watching them whooping it up.

The train ride
We then headed for Sanibel Island and spent an agreeable few hours on the beach shelling. At the brand new Doc Ford’s we had a sumptuous sea food dinner.

Jackson with his prized coconut

Doc Ford’s world famous Yucatan Shrimp
We were exhausted and you guessed it, we slept 9+ hours again. In the morning after breakfast and packing up, Michelle, Tim, Jackson and Wyatt headed off for more shopping and on to Orlando. These are the moments family memories are made of.

Wyatt’s new shoes

Bye for now
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Ave Maria, Florida is a catholic university town established by Tom Monaghan, philanthropist and founder of Dominos’s Pizza. We had been there before but decided to make the trek again with our friends the Clarke’s. It is located about 50 km inland from here.

Ave Maria Oratory Catholic Church
The church is the principal attraction. It is a neo-Gothic design with flying buttresses outside and beautiful structural steel arches inside.

We enjoyed the mass there. The congregation is very youthful being mostly university students, staff and their families. There was a wonderful children’s choir in the loft who sang their hearts out. Pastor Fr. Cory Mayer gave a great homily on being attentive to God’s call. I was able to pick up a copy of Robert Cardinal Sarah’s God or Nothing in the bookstore. All in all a great outing!


Beautiful Tabernacle

Crucifix above the altar

Life Sized Apostles with Mary and Joseph
Things have not changed much since our last visit. There is a golf course, Publix, housing and fountains throughout. A growing world-famous Catholic community.

With Glenn and Betty Clarke

Smile
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Our go-to beach this year has become the little one at the Cape Coral Yacht Club. It is 10 minutes away, has free parking and the bridge toll is only $2. They have a pier, an outdoor restaurant/bar and live music on the beach some days.

The birds there are wild! One day we were eating lunch when a gull flew over my shoulder from behind and knocked the sandwich right out of my hand. The slightest rustle of a bag attracts their attention and 2 or 3 of them are soon eyeing your snack craftily. They are a nuisance for sure and you feel intimidated when you eat anything.
However, the other day we heard some really loud screeching, and squawking in the high trees behind us. I looked up and saw dozens of green parrots roosting and flying from branch to branch. Turns out these are monk parrots, originally native to South America. They have established themselves as feral communities in various southern U.S. areas.


Beautiful birds. And they don’t dive bomb you on the beach!
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This musical is the delightful story of 2 young Mormon missionaries and their attempt to convert Ugandans to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
The true story of the founding of the “all-American” church is told to us. The story is then distorted by one of the missionaries to make it appealing to the Ugandans. It works. They want to be baptized.
However the Regional LDS chief disbands the District of Missionaries when he sees how the true story was vulgarly distorted. Despite this, the converted Ugandans including the local strongman go on to become Mormon missionaries themselves.
The element of youth embracing the faith on their own terms and believing despite counter directives of the hierarchy, is appealing to all ages. So what if some rules are broken – souls are saved!
Not everyone found it funny though as some of the humour is more vulgar or graphic than need be. The man next to me refused to applaud and laughed only rarely. We have met some young Mormons before and found them to be highly engaging, family and fun loving people.
Very clear story line, fantastic live music and singing, great stage props and choreography. Highly entertaining and educational. Highly recommend. 4.5 of 5 stars.

Happy Birthday Marie!
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